The long-term success of a marriage depends heavily on how well spouses adjust during the early years. Getting good advice early on helps couples manage expectations and encourages them to prepare by discussing key issues. SO, YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED? consists of 12 letters that the author wrote to an engaged couple some years ago. The informal letter format provides a useful tool to share insights that are significant to young lovers who are in the process of courtship or who are engaged. The author's sincere prayer is that these pages will touch readers' lives in a deep and wonderful way, and serve as reminders that Jesus Christ is the Author of marriage and as such is the Way, the Truth, and the Life in this as in every area of life.